Private by design
Each of you receives a separate private invitation and answers independently. There is no public shared code.
Marriage & Whole-Life Leadership · Available for engaged couples
Prepare for marriage with fewer assumptions and more honest agreements.
This assessment helps you and your partner talk honestly about the marriage you are preparing to build. You answer separately and privately before receiving a report for both of you.
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A guide for conversation, not a final judgement
This assessment does not pass or fail your relationship. It helps you see what is already strong and what you still need to discuss.
LFTH releases the report when it is ready
After both of you complete the assessment and agree to a joint report, LFTH is notified. An LFTH team member or facilitator releases the report at the right point in your marriage preparation.
Four preparation areas
Know what you are being invited to reflect on.
The assessment does not measure how much you love one another or decide whether you should marry. It helps you reflect on four connected parts of the life you are preparing to build.
Commitment and the Home You Want to Build
What marriage means to each of you, the promises you are preparing to make, and ideas learned from family, faith, culture or past experience.
Your Plans and Decisions
Your plans for work, where you will live, children, family responsibilities and how you will make important decisions together.
Money, Responsibilities and Daily Life
How you will handle money, household responsibilities, extended family, rest and the pressures of everyday life.
Communication, Disagreement and Making Peace
How you discuss difficult matters, listen to each other, handle disagreement, apologise and rebuild trust.
Care and safety matter. If you do not feel able to answer freely or safely, the assessment offers a private support path instead of creating a joint report. LFTH does not diagnose abuse, trauma, or psychological health.
Prepare well, before you promise for life.
Tell us a little about where you are. One partner can set up the assessment for both of you. Each person receives a separate private invitation, and there is no shared public code.